August 3 2016 record highest rainfall in Armidale
Total of more than 60mm rainfall in a day University Sports Fields, filled with water. People made a good use, spot two canoes? Kangaroo seeks shades too Side effect, some […]
Total of more than 60mm rainfall in a day University Sports Fields, filled with water. People made a good use, spot two canoes? Kangaroo seeks shades too Side effect, some […]
FEAR => DARE FEAR F=认知融合(Fusion) E=过高目标(Excessive goals) A=回避不适(Avoidance of discomfort) R=偏离价值(Remoteness from values) F是认知融合(Fusion):什么是认知融合?简而言之,就是你把你头脑中的想法当成了事实本身。比如,当你在实现新年计划的行动中遇到障碍时,你的 大脑就会不自觉地抛出一些负面消极而阻止你继续行动的想法:“这太难了,我做不到,我会失败,我压根就不是个坚持的人,我太忙了,我不可能有时间做等 等。”如果你与这些阻止你继续行动的想法融合在一起,把想法看作事实,而就此放弃,你的新年计划也就到此为止了。 E是目标过高 (Excessive goals):如果你新年目标的实现所需要的必需资源,比如技能、时间、金钱、关系、身体健康等,超过了你当下能得到的资源。那么这就是个脱离现实的目 标,放弃或失败也是预料之中的结果。后面,我会讲讲怎么去打破,新年目标的“假大空”。 A是回避不适(Avoidance of discomfort):通常我们制定新年计划,就是为了寻求某种改变,而改变发生的过程总会带来不适感,比如焦虑的情绪,挑战带来的压力感,以及对失败 的恐惧等。如果不愿意坦然接纳这些让我们不适的感受,而选择做其他的事情回避它们,那我们将永远待在自己的“舒适区”,不能成长;或者选择控制这些不适的 感受不要产生,与它们抗争,消除它们,而这往往会消耗我们大量的时间和能量,却徒劳无功。这就好比,不舒服的感受让你的内心波澜万千,你内心的波澜就像水 面的波纹一样,如果你尝试着用手去抚平水波,结果会怎么样?你的双手越用力抚平,水波就会越来越强烈,而当你默默看着这些水波,也许你会发现,水波不会 24h存在,波澜总会有平静的那一刻。 R是偏离价值(Remoteness from values): […]
Install evolution-ews for evolution 3.2.3 on ubuntu 12.04 This is a nice post, I adopted from “http://loginroot.com/evolution-ews-plugin-install-script-for-evolution-3-2-3-on-ubuntu-12-04/” for my use and share with others. Made script for automatic evolution-ews […]
I have strong interesting in two kinds of farms: E-farm (playing with IT toys) and Dirty Farm. The Dirty Farm, as a matter of fact, is my pure passion. I […]
A friend send me a set of great photos, various roads. I put them here to share, please point out where are they (in comments), enjoy!!
The work place VPN moved to Cisco VPN and kindly provides linux users with following parameters Connection Type: IPSEC Hostname: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx Groupname: TheLocalGroup Group Secret: SecrectPass Use your username and […]
Mutt This nice fix was found here Simple steps: add following lines in your ~/.muttrc set sort=threads #set sort=reverse-date set auto_tag=yes set duplicate_threads = yes set move = yes macro […]
when a set of processes of the same command are running. Sometime you need to kill a particular one because of wrong parametesr used. The first task is identify the […]
battery calibration is needed each time you flash a new custom Android ROM. The aim is to fully charge your battery, delete the batterystats.bin file and then unplug the phone […]